The Good-In-Bed Checklist
You are knowledgeable about sex and have a good understanding of how your body and your partner’s body work
You have had lot of practice – it really can perfect your technique
You have got the right attitude-of all these things, attitude, being able to let go and enjoy, is the most crucial
You will try everything once– say, “I have always wanted to try so-and-so, but I have never felt comfortable enough to suggest it with anyone else before,” and you score huge points.
You play games-the more playful you are in bed, the higher you will be rated as a lover. Loosen up a little, laugh a lot, drop the inhibitions, and let your imagination run wild.
You initiate sex as much as they do-it not only feels great on their end, it feels good on yours as well. Nothing is more empowering than being the one undoing the zipper and promising the earth in return for having your wicked way.
You keep your genitals fit-regular exercise of your pc muscles makes intercourse much better for both of you. The tighter her vagina, the more sensation she will feel; the more control he has over his pc muscle, the more control he will have over his erection.
You spend roughly twice as much time on foreplay as you do on intercourse-if you have stopped thinking of intercourse as sex and foreplay as the stuff you do before you have intercourse, pat yourself on the back. Get into the habit of having sessions without any intercourse and bring each other to orgasm purely through oral sex or mutual masturbation.
You put the effort in – a good lover accepts that great sex doesn’t just happen when you are ten years into the relationship.
You laugh off embarrassment-if you are not making a fool of yourself now and then, you are staying within your comfort zone. Not good.
You say no to sex occasionally– saying yes every single time means you are a 100 percent sure thing. Marriage and living together removes a lot of the chase, so don’t wipe out the last shred of it by removing all unpredictability.
You know what you want and tell and show your partner-someone who knows their sexual triggers and isn’t afraid to let their partners in one the secret gets the perfect ten.
Source by Linda Bony